:) hi am temptess I just want a good answer on this.
I have been talking to this married gay for about a year know,but there are some problems am facing with him know,we are not seeing each other now he only call.The reason he say he is leaving me is because he is hearing I have a next partner,and am going on dates which people coming to tell him.am trying my best to tell him am noit having a inafair he don't believe me because he is much older than me I want young man to sex with.when I go on look for my friends it's a big deal for him it's a man house are some where with. Even when I go to school on some time it is hard for me to get a cab,it's a problem.my phone is a big problem too when it ring on I don't answer it.he says its my man but I say to him when we are together I don't want to talk to anyone,on some time it's a long time person.trust me I really want to see him but he's not coming around me no more,I love him so much you would not imagine.what should I do I don't have no one else to talk to.

I suspect english is not your first language as your post is VERY hard to read.

The biggest problem you have is that he is married. Leave him alone, he is taken and he is not yours.

I bet he told you he's not happy with his wife, that they are getting a divorce, that she doesn't understand him, there are no feelings there anymore, blah, blah, blah.

Not only is he having an affair with you, and breaking his marriage vows, but he is starting to control you. Things won't change with him, they'll only get worse.

I hope he doesn't have any kids...

I might have this wrong because your post is very hard to understand but what I get from it is that you are dating a married man and he is upset at you because he thinks you are having an affair.
He is having an affair himself so why should be made at you. "Do what I say not what I do" Is that his idea of this?

Dating a married man is never a good thing. If he really loved you he would be with you. He can not get mad at you for having an affair (if you are) since he is having an affair himself on his wife.

J_9 is right, I hope he doesn't have any kids too. Did you realize that he and you could be breaking up his family?

I am sure you can find someone to talk to, instead of being manipulated and controlled by a lying cheater. Find someone who cares, and respects you, instead of settling for some one who uses, and abuses you. Yes he abuses you with his control, and making you feel you can't have anything better. DUMP HIS BUTT!

I think you need to move on. He is MARRIED! You can find someone better than someone who is trying to hide you because he is married. He is selfish, controlling, and a lier! You need to find someone who can love you and you ONLY. You deserve better.

You said in the rating you gave me "I don't have anyone to support me like him." Do you mean financially? You should be able to take care of yourself in case anything ever happened. What if he just left you and never came back? Do you have a job? Did you get an education so you can get a job and support yourself? You need to be able to take care of yourself before you can depend on a relationship.

Temptess, I think you should read this thread so you can see exactly what you are doing to his wife and possibly children. Do you want to be the HOMEWRECKER?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/child-affair-166360.html#post796823