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billabong
Dec 20, 2007, 09:24 AM
Hi my names um john jacob(fake name) I've recenty been talking to a 20 year old and I'm 15 and I think I'm starting to fall for her what do I do?? What's the age law or dating?
ScottGem
Dec 20, 2007, 09:43 AM
There is no law on dating. But I can't imagine what a 20 yr old woman would want with a 15 yr old boy. Where have you been talking? Does she know your are 15?
There are laws on having sex with a minor however, so she could get in serious trouble doing that.
billabong
Dec 20, 2007, 09:45 AM
You she knows and lots of stuff we talk about y?
J_9
Dec 20, 2007, 09:46 AM
Would your 14 year old ex girlfriend threaten you with suicide if she found out?
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/why-does-she-hate-me-now-158607.html
Most 20 year olds I know are not interested in a 15 year old in that way.
You are 15, you are not in love with her. Maybe lust, maybe infatuation, but not love. Love takes time to develop, years sometimes. Not just a few weeks or months.
billabong
Dec 20, 2007, 09:47 AM
I don't know my ex doesn't really talk to me and even if she did I woudnt tell he ranything
J_9
Dec 20, 2007, 09:51 AM
Apparently, according to your other thread (link above)
The two of you talk all the time... She threatens suicide...
yes she loved me after 2 weeks..we talk alot lol
You were in love with her after only 2 weeks!!
Love does not happen in 2 weeks, or 2 months.
ScottGem
Dec 20, 2007, 09:54 AM
You didn't answer where you talk, but I suspect its online. It could be this woman feels sorry for you and is being nice. Or it could be its really some pimply faced kid stringing you along.
I agree with J_9, you don't have a clue what love is.