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fsjake
Dec 19, 2007, 10:58 AM
OK here's the deal I've known this girl like since I was 2
And were both 15 now and I really love her
I dream about her
I annoy all my mates because all I think about is her
But she doesn't feel the same way about me I really need help
Please tell me some ways to win a girls heart


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Synnen
Dec 19, 2007, 11:24 AM
Be yourself. Have confidence. Don't make her the center of your world--those are all GREAT ways to get a girl's interest.

However... you don't "get" a girl, like you'd get a dog. She has feelings too, and a life, and interests of her own.

If you know something that she's involved with (a volunteer group, a club, something like that) you might try getting involved in it too--BUT don't do it JUST for her. Have a genuine interest yourself, or you'll just make a fool of yourself trailing along behind her like a puppy.

How well do you really know her? Do you talk to her often? You may be infatuated with her, but unless you are good friends with her already, I doubt that you are "in love" with her. That's not to say you don't have feelings for her--but if you don't know her well, then how can you really be in love with the real her?

fsjake
Dec 19, 2007, 11:40 AM
Be yourself. Have confidence. Don't make her the center of your world--those are all GREAT ways to get a girl's interest.

However...you don't "get" a girl, like you'd get a dog. She has feelings too, and a life, and interests of her own.

If you know something that she's involved with (a volunteer group, a club, something like that) you might try getting involved in it too--BUT don't do it JUST for her. Have a genuine interest yourself, or you'll just make a fool of yourself trailing along behind her like a puppy.

How well do you really know her? Do you talk to her often? You may be infatuated with her, but unless you are good friends with her already, I doubt that you are "in love" with her. That's not to say you don't have feelings for her--but if you don't know her well, then how can you really be in love with the real her?






Yeah well we've been good friends our entire lived we went same nursery and same primary school but separated at secondary school we speak regularly and we see each other often
She's is intrested in horses she owns a horse and I've seen her ride it a lot of times and I am genuinly intrested in horses so do you think I should get involved with this?
Considering I'm only 15 and horses are expensive to keep