View Full Version : My feelings are so confused
scrub cakes
Dec 18, 2007, 05:32 PM
I was going out with this 26 yr old married man with 2 little kids but his wife found out and left him but there still living together and I love him so much but I told him I can't do this anymore and he was OK with it but after I told him that I can't do this anymore because it doesn't feel rite and but I told him I will always have feelings for him and will never forget about the relationshi that we had and after that he goes and asks his wife if she will get back with him but she said no do you think that he actually luved me or do you think he was using me for a fuk or something please help me I really love this guy and I don't no what to do I'm so confused and frustrated
450donn
Dec 18, 2007, 09:21 PM
Face facts, he was using you for sex. Do you feel proud of yourself that you are in the middle of a situation that could cause a family breakup?
jdblev
Dec 18, 2007, 09:40 PM
Well did you know he was married? How old are you? Anyway, how long did it last before you stopped it? I for one believe that someone can love someone and still enjoy sex with others. Because he was married he made a choice to give up sex with others. He's still young, and a jackass for cheating on his wife. Scary thing is I'm sure your not the only one, and chances are your not the last. I have never cheated on my wife. I have however seen many women who I would love to trade for. Just kidding! Poor kids! I hope she does leave him and it cost him an arm and a leg until their both 18. You might not be a hero after all
George_1950
Dec 18, 2007, 09:58 PM
He may love you, and he may not; only time will tell. The question for you, as I see it, is what are you going to do? Do you love him or not?