Well we went out for 2yrs and broke up just a month and a half ago.we broke up because his he became distant from me for about 3 weeks since his grandma passed away.. he wouldn't call,text,talk nothing... and then at school he would tell me he had to go right when I saw him.. and one day I hadn't seen him the whole day at school and I heard from a friend that he was in school... so I waited and waited in our spot.. he never showed up.. I called him 3 times and no anser so I texted him that I think it should be over because he isn't showing no interest in the relationship or love... well now... ive been trying to get him back since we broke up... and he hasn't wanted to talk to me.. ive confronted him wrote him a 2page note front and back.. cried.. the whole 9 yards... and the last thing I had left was to ask for his friendship.. which he denied... so I went up to him the next day and asked him why?. and he looked annoyed.. well then I told him.. you keep pushing me away and I love you.. if I didn't care I wouldn't be here right now crying and trying to get you back with you and talk to you and its like if you don't care... so I told him that I was done cause what's the point when no matter how hard I try he keeps pushing me away... so the next day he was all friendly with me and he tried kissing me... then like he started texting me... and the next day he kissed me and he was all friendly too... but what I'm confused about is that he brings up doing things that we've done and he wants to do themm.. like sexually... and I asked him if that's all he wants and he said no,. and he's like is that what u think and I'm like well its basically what you talk about now.. and he's like not true... and he's like what do you think I want?and I'm like I don't know what you want.and he's like I don't know what I want neither... well yea... && then like a few days later he got mad at me for skipping a class and he got pissed at me... he said I was being a lier and a fake and I think that he doesn't care about me and all that... and he told me not to talk to him while I'm f***cking up... the next day he texted me saying that he cares about me and he doesn't want me skipping for my own good.because he loves me he really does he doesn't know.and that it pisses him off to see me ruining my life like that then I texted him back saying you love me?and he's like don't let that get to your head.. and he said that he talked to me again that time to see if we can have something...

well that was a week ago... now yesterday I decided to give him another note.. so I texted him saying I have something to give you but I saw you were with your friends... I never told him what it was... and after school he waited for(what a surprise)... so we talked and again he was being all friendly and he he kissed me... and today he like attacked me with a kiss... but my friend julio which is his friend too talked to him yesterday and he asked him if he was planning on getting back with me and he replied no.. and julio told him he should and he just stayed quiet... well back to today... well yea he attacked me with a kiss... and he kept hugging me while we were talking and getting touchy... and I told him to stop... I told him that if he wants to do things like we did before then what's the point in being just friends... and he said he's just use to doing does things with me so he soesnt feel wrong.. and he said we're more then friends... so yea I'm confuseddd HELP!. like is he just wanting sex or to figure out what he wants and fix things =]]] help please I'm so lost

OK, your boyfriend, or ex seems like he doesn't know what he wants. I've been in this situation, and believe me my boyfriend was acting the same way. I hated it cause I was confused and crying all the time. My best advice to you is to back away for a little while, tell him that he needs to decide what he wants! Cause the way he is acting is doing nothing but hurting you. Let him know that you will be there for him and be his friend but until he knows what he wants he needs to stop sending you mixed messages. I want to warn you that this might mean you having to see him hanging out with friends or other girls while he is taking his time, that means you can to though don't get it twisted. Both of you need to look at what you want.