So I've known this guy for almost 8 months. I have a huge crush on him, I mean I get the butterflies and get all nervous and all that stuff whenever he is around. I have a feeling that he might like me too, he's always teasing me about the type of guys I like, he's always doing stupid stuff like throwing paper at me, or writing on me with his pen, getting in my way as I'm trying to go somewhere, and just always being around me whenever he can, and stuff like that. A couple of my friends have also said that they've seen him looking at me while I'm not looking. And sometimes we'll just make eye contact and just fold each others gaze for what seems like ever, its kind of crazy. I mean it definitely seems as if he is flirting with me and is interested but he's never asked me to hang out. The thing that he does do though, because we both love movies, he'll ask me if I've seen a movie and then if I said not yet, he'll be like I'm going to see it on this day at this place. So it kind of seems like he is dropping hints for me to go with him, but then if that's the case then why doesn't he just straight out ask me? Especially because a couple of months ago I kind of mentioned that we should go see a movie together, and he seemed like he was into it but then he never followed up by calling me or anything. So its all confusing. But then he also tries to like things that I do, if I tell him that I like something, like I told him that I really like to watch football on sundays, and then last week he was telling me how he is going to watch the game this weekend even though he doesn't really follow sports. So yeah I don't know. I really like him though and I'm not sure what to do. Any advise would be great.

I would say he likes you but he is just as unsure as you are on what to do next.
He is probably unsure if you like him.

Unless you want to wait some more, you will have to make the next move/decision.

I agree.
let him know that you're interested in more then friendship.
Send text use.. "babe" or something kind of fun && flirty.
then, when you're hanging out wit him... be a little forward.
but be careful, you don't want to scare him away.
good luck =]

i agree.
let him know that you're interested in more then friendship.
Send txt use.. "babe" or someting kinda fun && flirty.
then, when youre hanging out wit him... be a little forward.
but be careful, you dont want to scare him away.
good luck =]

How can I let him know that I like him without being too forward? What should I do? I don't really want to tell him straight out either. But I mean he kind of has to know, I mean I'm always complimenting him, smiling at him, flirting back with him. And I did ask him to go to the movies that one time and he kind of blew it off. So its like mixed signals. And also a few weeks ago he was telling me how he has all these dates lined up. So I kind of took that a sign that he is not interested. But then he constantly hangs around me and flirts and smiles and teases me. I really can't figure him out.

Hey confused, I glad to see your back. This thread is starting like your other one, and we know how that ended, so let me just say, leave these guys who have a problem expressing themselves, and are shy or insecure, alone. Seems you attract these lost puppies, so be nice, but leave him alone till he grows up a bit more.

It seems like he's trying to be flirty and get your attention but not doing a very good job of it ; probably due to his youth and immaturity.

Hey confused, I glad to see your back. This thread is starting out like your other one, and we know how that ended, so let me just say, leave these guys who have a problem expressing themselves, and are shy or insecure, alone. Seems you attract these lost puppies, so be nice, but leave him alone till he grows up a bit more.

Hey talaniman! How are you :) well the good thing about having a crush on this guy for the last 8 months is that I am totally over my ex. The bad thing is that I can't stop thinking about him! And it makes it worse because every single time I see him, he is all flirty and always hanging around me and stuff. And also in the last 8 months, I've had 3 other guys actually pursue me with flowers and candy and asking me out and all that, and I've been on a couple of dates with two of them but there is no sparks at all. My heart is really stuck on this guy and it really sucks! And I don't think I'm brave enough to straight out just ask him out either. And I can't get over my crush on him since I see him all the time. So yeah I don't know.

It seems like he's trying to be flirty and get your attention but not doing a very good job of it ; probably due to his youth and immaturity.

Haha well he probably is immature but he is 29 so not exactly young though.

I'm sorry. 29? The guy gets in your way... throws paper at you... writes on you with his pen?

... uh... this is a gimme for me. Run? Hire a babysitter for the kid and go out on your own. That's kind of weird.

Actually, that's too judgmental. I must ask... how old are you confused?

i'm sorry. 29? the guy gets in your way...throws paper at you...writes on you with his pen?

...uh...this is a gimme for me. run? hire a babysitter for the kid and go out on your own. that's kinda weird.

actually, that's too judgmental. i must ask...how old are you confused?

Yeah I'm 26. The funny thing is that when I throw paper back at him he says I'm childish and need to grow up but then he does the same thing and says how he is a mature adult. Its kind of funny. But I mean when I see him around other people he acts totally mature, he's only this way with me. And I've never seen him and neither have my ffriends ever seen him flirt with anyone else.

yeah im 26. the funny thing is that when I throw paper back at him he says im childish and need to grow up but then he does the same thing and says how he is a mature adult. its kind of funny. but i mean when i see him around other people he acts totally mature, he's only this way with me. and I've never seen him and neither have my ffriends ever seen him flirt with anyone else.

Well OK then. Maybe he's just going back to his childish ways because... you make him... feel like a kid again? Not sure. It just seems like harmless flirting... but if it continues this way, I'm not so sure if it'll actually go far.

well ok then. maybe he's just going back to his childish ways because...you make him...feel like a kid again? not sure. it just seems like harmless flirting...but if it continues this way, i'm not so sure if it'll actually go far.

So you are saying that if he did like me he would have already done something about it? I guess I'm just fun to flirt with. It makes it really hard to get over the crush if he keeps on being this way though.

It may not necessarily true... but I'm 21. I don't flirt in that way... at least not when I actually want to start something with a girl. I flirt that way... never, actually. Sorry. Maybe someone else can give you some insight on that certain way of flirting.

29, I think he would be asking you out, instead of just flirting. 8 months is a long time to not make a move, don't you think?

29, I think he would be asking you out, instead of just flirting. 8 months is a long time to not make a move, don't you think?

You it does. But I don't know we've hung out before and he always talks about his shyness and lack of confidence, so I don't know. Would that stop him from saying something? Or do I just need to get over it?

You know, if you really want something to happen, step up! Ask HIM out on a date. Sometimes, I like it when girls are forward.