Hey,

I've been on here before (bout a month ago) but I've got another question. Basic story is that a girl I liked (met at college in NY) screwed me over by not telling me she had a boyfriend, and then choosing him when I found out about him and told her I couldn't continue a relationship with her while she had a boyfriend. Since then I've been doing NC for about a month. She hasn't spoken to me either.

2 weeks ago (after a month of NC) she sent me a random message asking if we could be friends. I was fairly nonchalant and basically said it was up to her. Now she's sent me another message.

I really just don't feel like replying. It's a very nothing-y message and won't really go anywhere for another few weeks until the next random message. Is it a dumb idea or rude to just ignore it? She lives in another state and we have few mutual friends so it's unlikely we'll see each other anytime soon, if ever.

I just really liked her :(.

If you liked her than DON'T message back. It will lead you to chasing her,its like a bloody drug. AS for being rude, I can't imagine it being ruder than what she has done to you (cheats with you and then picks him) who cares what she thinks, you like herandthatswhy you are taking her feelings into account, that leads down a stormy road my man. Quit while your ahead.

I agree do not reply she seems to be the type of person who uses people to get what she wants she probably just wants to patch things a little just in case she ever decides she wants something to happen again I would for get her as quick as possible there are a lot of girls out there who would not act in that mannor just stay possitive and you will find her

How about: "How are things going with your boyfriend? Have a nice day."

You dead rite der.. then again NOT txtn back makes them appricate u more

I think the best reply is none at all. Is it rude not to open the door for uninvited strangers? NO!