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mistake1111
Dec 11, 2007, 09:31 PM
I recently discovered I was pregnant off a one nightstand. I want to keep the baby but he doesn't what should I do? :confused:

mjl
Dec 11, 2007, 09:32 PM
If you want to keep it than keep it. It is your decision of course.
It is a hard decision but keeping a baby is one you wouldn't regret.

Bdfoster31
Dec 11, 2007, 09:43 PM
Abortion is going to leave you with lots of regret, so don't do it. If anything, put it up for adoption, but not abortion. Sounds like you are wanting to keep it so I would keep it, don't listen to him. Hope he decides to help you out with the baby!

alkalineangel
Dec 11, 2007, 11:37 PM
Abortion is going to leave you with lots of regret, so don't do it. If anything, put it up for adoption, but not abortion. Sounds like you are wanting to keep it so I would keep it, don't listen to him. Hope he decides to help you out with the baby!

Adoption can cause just as much regret as abortion does if she isn't really willing to give up the child. It isn't right to push people on this subject.

TO the OP do what you feel is best for you. It doesn't matter whether he wants it or nt, you have every right to keep the child. Also, it doesn't matter whether he decides to help out or not, with a valid pat. Test, he is required to, and if he elects not to, he will sit in jail for it.

mjl
Dec 12, 2007, 03:47 AM
Well, she didn't say anything about wanting to give the baby up for adoption...

mistake1111
Dec 12, 2007, 10:07 PM
Thanks everyone for your input

LearningAsIGo
Dec 13, 2007, 08:56 AM
It really is your decision to make for what's best for this child.

From the sounds of it you may face being a single parent, but if you're up to it than more power to you.

Good luck