I have been good friends with a guy for seven years. We have been very close that hole time and I can tell him anthing. Recently he left for a couple months and when he returned home it all felt different. I was attracted to him! On top of that there is the trust and love I always had for him as a friend. We started doing something at least once or twice a week. He would call every day and we would talk for hours. He says he loves me, but he has always said that. I think I love him, but I don't want to risk our amazing friendship. He is everything in the world I could ask for and that makes me want to run away. What do I do??

Sincerely,
Amanda

Take your time.

The best love begins as a friendship--and continues as one.

Go slow.
Start talking with him about future plans.
See, where he's willing to take it.