I havea good friend who has a relationship problem and she always turn to me for a shoulder to cry on, and I feel like am not helping her a lot.

She met this guy two months ago, he is 45 and she is 29, they could touché, kiss, they could text and talk on the phone for hours and the problem is whenever they meet, the guy seems to be confused and does not know what he wants, he could touch, talk and make themselves feel the warmth from each others body, and whenever they are at extrems he stopped and start saying a lot of things like you are confusing me, and its become difficult to resist you?

Does the man loves her? I keep telling her he is confused but am not sure with what?

Perhaps he wants their relationship to remain platonic. Has she asked him if he does? He definitely likes her a lot. She needs to discuss her thoughts with him about sex, but not while they are kissing and touching. He may have a problem with erectile function. That's a sensitive subject and can be very scary for a guy to talk about, especially if he has been led to believe that it is his fault. He may have a religious preferences toward waiting to have sex. He has to tell her though, or their relationship will be unable to grow.