I am still deeply in love my ex-boyfriend and I just don't know what to do. We were together for 3 months but in reality we basically dated for about 6. I got to know him through school and it really kicked off. We actually live right down the street a few houses away and so that was really beneficial at the time, but not anymore.

While we were dating he said I was the only and perfect girl for him and he was the first to say he loved me. It wasn't puppy love, it was so true. Nothing that I've ever felt before. He always said how beautiful and how much he loved and cared for me. He said he always wanted to be with me forever and I felt exactly the same. Everyone said we were perfect together and it was so true.

But about 2 months into our relationship everything changed. He went on this trip with his friends for about 2 weeks and I missed him so much and he changed a lot. He still cared for me, but he would used to ditch his friends, on his own accord, and hang with me but then he wouldn't do that anymore so we weren't together as much.

A month after that we broke up which I thought would be good. We said we would stay friends, but we haven't really. I don't want to initiate the talking because I don't want to ruin anything but I also don't want to sit here and sulk.

From what I've heard from my friends he doesn't do that much with his friends like he blows them off and only goes out to play competitive soccer on his club team.

I don't know what is happening to him, maybe he misses me or maybe something else but I can't take that everywhere I go I see something that reminds me of him and it just hurts me even more. I don't know what to do because I know if he ended up with another girl I would just die, and I've tried dating other guys but I just can't I feel like I'm betraying him and I just don't have interest in them, I really have tried, honestly.

Please help me! I don't know what to do!!

Sorry to say you have invested way too much emotion, to soon into this brief relationship and can't accept he has moved on.


I don't want to ruin anything but I also don't want to sit here and sulk.

There is nothing to ruin, and you really should get a life that you enjoy without him in it. Find things that make you happy, and move beyond the pining for an ex. It takes time but it will get better if you keep yourself busy making yourself happy. We have all gone through this and learned to move on.

I feel the same. I fell in love with my ex after a few times meeting him through a friend of mine and we hooked up a few times and decided to get into a relationship back in march and we were together for 4 months and then he broke it off. The reason he did is stupid because he thinks am too quiet for him and we don't have much communication he thinks am way too quiet. He was mad about me when we got together he was the one who made the move to ask me to be with him and he told me he wanted to be mine and that he's crazy about me and that am beautiful. I felt the same way and sadly I still do and he doesn't anymore. We were serious at the time when we were together. We almost thought about giving it another go a few weeks back but he told me the next day we just should stay friends and he doesn't feel the same but when he's drunk he always ends up thinking about me. Its killing me not being with him I think about him everyday he's the love of my life I have tried to move on and be with other fellas but they don't mean anything to me. He's everything I want in a guy and he's my everything and my whole world he's amazing and I really miss him and don't know what to do either

I love my exboyfriend too, he made me feel so special and lkei was a different person, but he fancies my best fieind, and she likes him back and every think I do reminds me of him, I miss his cudles and his hug and the way he would give me his jacket even if he was freezing, I just want him back. He's starting to talking to me now but I noo we will never get back what we had, I say boys are stupid, throw rocks at them lmaoo x

And this thread is from 2007 -please check dates before posting.