I wanted to know if having sex with a fat woman or that has more weight (not necessarily huge) is more fun or fulfilling than with a skinny one...

This is definitely a question for the guys to answer!!

Hi,
This is something you will have to find out for yourself, as well as many other questions one might have about sex.
A person's height, weight, age, etc, really doesn't have much to do with it. It's all "in the mind" while engaged in sex. If you really want it to happen, and your partner does, too, then you both are in for a very pleasant and wonderful sexual experience.

i wanted to know if having sex with a fat woman or that has more weight (not necessarily huge) is more fun or fulfilling than with a skinny one...

Personally, I've always theorized that guys opt for fat chicks due to subconscious hang-ups about their own bodies. They figure a girl on the heavier side is less apt to judge their own physiques, so they can relax a bit more and truly enjoy the act.

Different people have different opinions in what is appealing in a person of the opposite sex. It is not size ( really not in men or women) but the love between them and the attraction that each other has for each other.

Many men really prefer and are attracted to heavier women.
Now you will not see many in today's steriotype as the perfect women, they will see half starved models. But in real life each person like different things.

I have in years past dated a girl who used to be Miss Florida and another who was a college cheer leader, but I also dated a couple who would tip the scale at 300 lbs also.

It was in all cases the personallity of the person and the bonds not the looks that make a true relatonship

Im always hearing that this type of person is better in the bed than that type of person. What a lot of horse phooey. Cause one person will tell you big girls are better and another will tell you not. I think maybe it depends on the sexuall maturity of the person and if it's a person you care about too. Its not really fair to say one is better than the other because If that was all true then certain races would be extinct because their race was better in the bed and what if they said brunettes were better than redheads then all the red heads would be extinct by now. We would have a lot of people missing on this planet if that was all true.

I hear so much about size be it male size or woman size, but for me when I get that glance of love/ lust/attraction/sexualty/ mating call it all does not seem to matter too much about size, as usually again I seemd to have got a confidence of coming no mattwe what type or size I come across,, People that are always talking about size are at a bar counter anyway in my experience, so try and be loving, Regds mike

Ugh man I don't want to sound mean but that's just sort of nasty. I think 175 lbs is pushing it let alone 300 how did you pull that off dude?

I don't get what makes people even remotely attracted to them. Unless they themselves can't get the skinnier ones

Don't get me wrong I hate anorexic or bulimic chicks either. Under 100 isn't good

But that's just my opinion not trying to change your mind or anything

I like big men and I cannot lie. Now if I happen to fall for a 300 lb man me and that boy is headed to a gym cause Id love him enough not to die of heartfailure and many other things that come with obesity. Ive dated some skinny guys but I have to have a man with some meat on him. It just makes me feel like more of a woman I guess. Id prefer most of that bigness to be muscle though. Muscles and dark hair. Yummy.

Phew I was going out with a girl and I must say I really loved her at first she was about 240 pounds but she kept getting heavier, I certanily enjoiyed the sex with her,. but finally she went crazy dieting and excercising and slimming tablets and she was down to about 140 , but for what ever reason she seemed to change and became *****ey and utterly changed her character to be not as nice as when she was 240,, I would lived if she had shed less weight and stayed as fun loving as she was when 240,, mike

Well it depends who you are. Obviously men are supposed to be more muscular but not fat

But women on the other hand... you see it's a double standard. I'd probably puke if I had to do that

ugh man i dont wanna sound mean but thats just sorta nasty. i think 175 lbs is pushing it let alone 300 how did you pull that off dude?

i dont get what makes people even remotely attracted to them. unless they themselves can't get the skinnier ones

dont get me wrong i hate anorexic or bulimic chicks either. under 100 isnt good

but thats just my opinion not trying to change your mind or anything
I know what you mean but her personality was so over whelming nice, she was from a very poor african country and things went wrong between us as she was trying her best to become like us,, mike

If you truly love someone and make love to them. I think that would be the only basis of whether it is good or not. I do not believe that you should be looking at it as if which is better, but what type of women do you like the best. Love is more important.

Joe

I went out with another big girl from jamacia very sexy lady quite large but she made sure was so full of sexual passion I never worried about her size,, mike

All of us humans are different and what attracts you may not attract me.I've had friends who swear by the more the better as some like them light, The same with women, everone has his own taste so I tend to back off calling the girls names because there is someone for everybody!It's a matter of personal preference!:cool: The right size is the one you want !:cool:

Hello:

The only problem with fat chicks, is you have to roll 'em in flour to find the wet spot.

excon

Excon! That's very rude! :(

Fat isn't ugly,stupid is!:cool:

Fat isn't ugly,stupid is!:cool:,. hi just wonder what people think of meeting women on dating sites from poor conntries, I met a filipino girl are so and went to manila and we got on very well but I was shocked how poor everyone was and I am afraid of many things as she expects marriage BOY this is giving me headaches, THEY SEEM TO FALL IN LOVE SO EASILY, I am not paying for her flight here to ireland but every day we talk on internet or phone and I think she is expecting utopia
I am 54 and I am kind of worries that I wll never have a partner,, ny comments mike,,
Ps, so I have moved on from big women

,.,.,.,..,hi just wonder what people think of meeting women on dating sites from poor conntries,.i met a filipino girl are so and went to manila and we got on very well but i was shocked how poor everyone was and i am afraid of many things as she expects marriage BOY this is giving me headaches, THEY SEEM TO FALL IN LOVE SO EASILY ,.i am not paying for her flight here to ireland but every day we talk on internet or phone and i think she is expecting utopia
i am 54 and i am kind of worries that i wll never have a partner,.,.ny comments mike,.,.
ps,.so i have moved on from big women


This question should almost be a question of its own,

First I have two stories on how these work out. I know many older men 45 and up that have meet either though military or though some introduction service women from various third world countries. They have brought them to the US and they live happy lives with a lady who is devoted to them. The success they have could be a bill board for these arrangements.

But I also know several where the girl came to the US, was here for a few years, became a US citizen, helped to bring several family members to the US, then took the gentleman for every penny they had and left them.
They used the person to get a better life.

So it can work both ways, and there is just no way to know which way it will work out unless you do it.

Oh looking back at the replies I also forget the girl was africa and a very poor country so this made me feel sorry and kind to her ,she was a lovely person and when she told me of the famines etc phew this made me love her even more , so all in all I did not take the elsat bit of notice of her size,, regds mike

How about with some one you love rather than fat or skinny.

Mmmmmm u have me thinking I find it difficult at times to sue this site as well, mike

i wanted to know if having sex with a fat woman or that has more weight (not necessarily huge) is more fun or fulfilling than with a skinny one...

I think it is some how true but I don't know how to say it. That what I think.

I think it is some how true but i don't know how to say it. That what i think.
I am not a man but as a woman who is about 240 I will give my experience. I actually asked my fiancé one day why it was he has always been with a bigger girl (his ex was bigger than me). He is very tall, thin and he could get a small girl if he so desired. He said he had dated a little blonde thin girl like 120 and about 5'6. He said he liked her but when it came time to go to bed it just felt odd. Felt like he was with a strange boy because there wasn't hardly any softness or curves to feel. He loves my DDs and curvy softness and I am thankful there are men out there that do.

I am trying to lose weight just to be healthier but I am sure it won't change how I am sexually, I am one of the most passionate, creative, open minded women I know when it comes to the bedroom with my man. Its ultimately my mind and personality that make me sexy.

Yes I can understand so much what you are saying,. I think society has a lot to answer for, As I may have said before I was dating a lovely big happy girl from africa and I got some racist comments which really sickened and I nearly would be getting into fights every night , it really use to anger me so much remarks about her size into the bargain,, its most thick heads in pubs/bars of course that make ignorant comments anyway, yes I did not think any of the girls as BIG it was the complete package of bubbly personality etc that got me hooked,, regds mike

mmmmmm u have me thinking i find it difficult at times to sue this site as well,.mike Did you mean sue or use??

What happens between two people, magic, chemical,or otherwise, is just the way life continues.

If someone is from a poor part of town - no matter what country!! - and wants that chance to get a better life - it does not necessarily mean that they are 'gold-diggers'. Some are really sincere in try to find a partner to be happy with and help make a partnership very happy. Some are taught to go about it other ways by their parents, or culture, but nonetheless, still only stive to be happy like the rest of us, rich or poor.

Don't look at the status that much, look into the heart and see what's there.

I have dealt with Korean ladies who married soldiers just to get their U.S. citizenship and tell him to get out of their lives - they get taught that from the 'mammsan' who is a leading lady who teaches how to entrap solders and they acturally have to make payments to her for many years if they reach a status. It depends into what hands these young ladies fall into and the influence brainwashed into them. But, some actually have excaped this and showed a true heart instead of bank accounts.

There are even slums in the U.S. and in all countries, where young folks try to look for a better future - so it really does not matter what country - just the state of things the world is in now and how the politicians and landlords let certain areas get worse due to being greedy.

As far as the size of someone, there is a lid for every pot and the accompanying taste in a person that is impressed upon them by the types of people they get attracted to. Do not let 'society' rule your taste or who you should fall for. The magazines are there to make money and sell what they think is a 'fad' but it's just another way of manipulating the mind - as if we were kids and can't choose on our own.

Hope this help you get another insight on how people can feel if leaving all the other influential trash out of their lives. As long as someone makes you happy - that's what counts.

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_22_20.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZN)Life is too short, make your own choice and try for that niche of happiness.

See, if I was a guy I would like a healthy full sized girl, not fat not heavy just a normal sized girl, media plays too much into having a skinny girl and I just don't see it as attractive.
Being helathy and a nice medium sized weight I think would be my ideal girl.. plus medium sized girls have boobs and *** and I think this would be great compared to just bones, don't get me wrong I'm not talking about FAT but just something to hold.

X

My pre-marriage life experience has been heavier women tend to be more easy going and have less of a gods gift to mankind thing going on that most beautiful well built women have, mostly when they are younger. You know that arrogance about how they are soooo hot they are too good for you. Many later get fat and ugly and still have that attitude and spend a miserable life alone as a result.

Not saying they all do, but a lot do. Personally I have enjoyed myself far more with a woman who was 170 lbs than some that were 120 lbs. Its not all about looks. Attitude has a LOT to do with it as well.

Some men like women who are build for comfort not speed!

I really don't think the way a person looks will have any affect on their er... talent, but being confident in yourself can make a massive difference. If anyone has a hang up about a certain body part they can often ruin the moment trying to cover it and that is definitely not sexy! That said I think women should have curves!

Oh I'm not saying I prefer heavier women, I just prefer their attitudes about life. They just tend to be more easy going and less judgmental on the average. My wife is a tiny little thing, about 5 foot and 100 lbs, But she does not have a gods gift to man (and never has) attitude so many women have. I'm just not attracted to people who think they are superior to the average person. And trust me, my wife is anything but timid or submissive.

Diff strokes, diff folks.

My cousin, a fairly fit 38 yo, has always liked women who were bigger... as in bigger chests and generally overall. No skinny models for him. His wife says he likes "fat chicks"... though, again, I think the use of the term "fat" is a little extreme here.

I've always been attracted to skinnier women, but have always dated women who were attracted to a bigger man. Not fat, but wider... as in my pant size isn't anywhere near as small as hers. And then my partner before my current one was a little bit curvier than the others, and I thought she was sexy as any of them.

But I have a female friend to dates smaller men mostly.

So... again, to each their own. I don't think you can say "one size fits all"