I had a boyfriend over the summer who I liked sooo much even though he didn't always treat me the best while dating him another guy had a crush on me the whole time and finally after realizing I wasn't treated the best by my summer boy I started going on dates with the one who liked me. He liked me so much more than I liked him and this was good for me to regain my confidene that had been somewhat misplaced by my ex finally I started dating the new boy and he treated me like I've never been treated in my life, like royality. I sometimes like guys who play hard to get so I liked this boy don't get me wrong but it wasn't like anything serious for me the way it was to me after dating for about 2 months I started to fall in love because he made me so happy and feel so special we were together almost everyday and if we weren't we were on the fone or texting or talking somehow. He would do antyhing for me. As much as I started to like him I knew I had him wipped and didn't treat him as great as he treated me. One day he didn't make an effort to see me and I treated to breakup with him and he said it would be a good idea and he ended up hooking up with a new girl that night! I tried getting back with him because I realized how good I had had it and had always took it for granted but he already fell for that new girl and had no intentions to get back with me. I never thought I would care about him the way I did so I didn't treat him right but if we give me another chance I would treat him amazingly. I have written him letters and given so much effort trying to get back but he doenst want to him. Him and that girl are done now but I think he still likes her and I feel like I look so desperate but I'm not willing to give away a guy like hime because things could be so good if I just had known this from the start... PLEASEEE HELP ME!

The thing is that you are wrong in the first place, and it was your fault. To get him back, you need to let him know you want him back, try buying him something like a card saying you're sorry, that might help

You don't.. forget it and go on with you life, having learned a lesson.

Put yourself in his place for a second. If someone treated you indifferently, no matter what you did, would you want him back?
It was different to be treated with respect, and you just cared for yourself and did not give him enough respect back, so leave him alone. He has lost that 'special feeling' for you and once that is gone, it's gone. Nothing you can do will bring it back, not at the agegroup you guys are in.

What is important is treating people as you would like to be treated from now on and maybe you'll find someone else who will care.

When you do all you can and get negative feedback there comes a time when you give up, and that's what he did.

This is the time in your life to gather experiences, good and bad to learn from and grow. Chuck this up for experience and go on with your life.

When you see him, wave, say hi, and most of all be respectful from now on.

Good luck.

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It sounds like you've done all you can. For whatever reason it just wasn't meant to be. Forget about it and move on.

Time and space
Leave it a couple of months
Strike up conversation again
See how things go
Don't become desperate though
Keep in the back of your mind it may very well just stay friendly
If you were meant to be after that amount of time if you started speaking again, his feelings would show in a few weeks.