Deathvac
Dec 6, 2007, 05:09 AM
Hello to all,
I hope someone out there can offer me some sound advice. This is my first outing on this site.
I have been separated from my wife for almost 5 yrs. She is South African I am British. We have a seven year old son. I have been living in Ireland for 6 yrs.
3 months ago she turned up and asked to reconcile while my son is with his grandparents in SA (he has always lived with them), I told her I had a new life and girlfriend etc. She has since told me I must give her money as she is bringing my son here to Ireland.
My concerns are she has no job, no income, she is not entitled to any benefits from the Irish government. How does she feed, clothe and educate him? Is this my resposibility?
How does a 7 yr old travel from SA to here unsupervised?
She has never allowed me access since she left me. As it stands I am barely able to support myself...
What do I do? She shouldn't be dragging him over here...
Any advice is appreciated. If I need to add more info please just ask.
Deathvac
I hope someone out there can offer me some sound advice. This is my first outing on this site.
I have been separated from my wife for almost 5 yrs. She is South African I am British. We have a seven year old son. I have been living in Ireland for 6 yrs.
3 months ago she turned up and asked to reconcile while my son is with his grandparents in SA (he has always lived with them), I told her I had a new life and girlfriend etc. She has since told me I must give her money as she is bringing my son here to Ireland.
My concerns are she has no job, no income, she is not entitled to any benefits from the Irish government. How does she feed, clothe and educate him? Is this my resposibility?
How does a 7 yr old travel from SA to here unsupervised?
She has never allowed me access since she left me. As it stands I am barely able to support myself...
What do I do? She shouldn't be dragging him over here...
Any advice is appreciated. If I need to add more info please just ask.
Deathvac