Hey I am just new and this is my first time :) so let me tell you:-

I love my boyfriend whom I live with to bits! He is my everything. But I have a really great dilemma. Since I moved out from my home with my family, things changed a lot example the fact that I don't see them as often as before (obviously) and since I have about 2hours travelling to see them.

The dilemma is that wheenver I go to my house my family especially my mum keeps on telling my boyfriend - "why dont you let her come to us. let her come for a weekend" and all of this kind of stuff. I really don't like it and due to all this things being said when we go back home my boyfriend and I end up having arguments, because he says that mum is saying so because she doesn't like him which is definitley not the case. (its just the fact that they all miss me, and I undrstand).

I feel myself totally torn and guily and sad on the inside - how can I make my parents stop from saying this kind of stuff and how can I try and visit more often even though I totally miss my boyfriend when I am not with him :(

Thanks loadz from before.

Ask you mom to stop saying things like that and visit them more often. It's really that simple. Tell your mom it's not your boyfriend. Be honest about it, it's really a choice you're making. You find the time and way to do what is important to you. So if you want all of this to stop, you will do what you need to do to make it stop. You will make up your mind to visit your parents on a regular basis.