Hi Guys,
I have a bit of a situation! There's a girl I have been in love with from work since May and ever since then we have been flirting, and other stuff and every 2 weeks she gets worried about us becoming a couple which I have no problem with so by almost every weekend she tries to be hurtful and say things to turn me away but come the next Tuesday everything sort of goes back to normal and we are friends again?
So basically I sat her down and told her how I feel about her (which everone knew anyway) and asked what she wanted to do!
She said she said she bekives she is ready for a relationship but just not with me, which at that point made me feel so bad, and that was about 4 weeks ago and since then we have just been friends, going out to places for dinner and shopping and stuff and everything was going smoothly there was no pressure of a relationship, I didn't bring it up for a while but last Friday she told me that she misses me and wishes she was with me instead of where she was and then on the weekend I picked her up before she started her other job and helped her out with shopping and on Sunday we went shopping again and everything was perfect!
Until today where we were messiging each other and everything was fine and then I bet a message saying that she wants to stop what were doing, which as far as I know was just being friends, and I said stop what were are just friends and her reply was OK as long as I know this!
Then I said OK I do but we will see what happens in the future and she said nothing ever will. How am I suppose to feel? Then I said sorry if I had pressuerd her at all and she said no! So then I invited her out for dinner just as friends as we have been and then she told me to leave her alone!
What am I suppose to do she is all I think of, I can't even look at another woman cause I'm always thinking of her!
Please help?

Workplace relationships can be a real problem. Give her her space, and quit trying to date her. MAybe she will realize that she likes you and will come calling. OR she will realize that she does not like you and move on. Either way you will win.

Maybe she is playing hard to get

Maybe she is just playing games with you because she knows you'll always be there and always cater to her. Are you paying for these said dinners and shopping trips? And I think that if she said "leave me alone", then you should do just that, cut your losses and move on. There is no reason you should be subjected to all these games.