I have been with this girl for 4 years she is 38. She treated me real bad. No matter what I tried everything preaches over and over. I was at her beck and call. She didn't want to spend anytime with me or show me love affection. For 2 years. I just caught her with another man a month ago and one lie after another. She tells everyone she is so happy in love with him and he makes her feel like and angel. We are broke up a month and she tries to keep in contact with me. She tries to tell me how happy she is. She says I could have had that to. She looks for reasons to talk to me and keeps asking me did I have sex with anyone degrades who ever I date.Yet she wants to buy things for my kids and asks to call them. Why is she doing this? She don't want me she is happy with her new man? Why is she tormenting me?

My experience with ex's, she does because she can, and you allow it.

That is why the no contact rule works so ever well.

Yup.

She does it cause you let her. Stop taking her calls.

She's a loser. What ever she's doing it seems she's doing it to make herself look and feel good while trying to make you feel bad. You should just forget about her and move on to something better.

Ignore her and eventually she will get the message. You don't need to post this again as I suspect all the advice will be the same.

Because she is probably unhappy in her new relationship. She wants you to feel worse than she does because it will make her happy knowing her ex is worse off than she is. Don't let her do this to you. Just stop talking to her and move on with your life. People like her feed off the unhappiness of others.

Good luck