My best friend is over in iraq right now. We haven't talked to each other since we graduated from high school. We both have our own lives now, he is married with a two year old son, and I'm engaged to be married next month with a child on the way. We are both unhappy and want to get out but we don't want to leave out lives that we have now. While we were talking he was telling me that he has been dreaming about me and him together, we both have strong feelings for each other, but we both live two separate lives. I'm so confused on what to do, any advice would be so nice right now.

Whatever you do you should put off getting married right now because even if you and the guy in Iraq never would get together just your feeling dissatisfied should be enough to put marriage off for now until you have a better idea of what you want and what might happen.

My best friend is over in iraq right now, he just got in contact with me a couple of days ago and while we was iming he told me that he dreams about me and him together, like we was in high school. he is married with a two year old son and i'm engaged to be married.. i still have fellings for him, and now i know that he as feeling for me, we are both unhappy where we are and want to get out, but we don't want to lose the lifes that we have now. i just don't know what to do, any help or advice whould be helpful right now.:confused:
Oh.. well yooh need to move on..