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imogene
Nov 25, 2007, 01:08 PM
Does it hurt the first timeyou have sex? I'm really scared. I'm not like like 12 either haha
I'm 22 and getting married in a few months. I've waited and I'm scared to death!! Help!

charlotte234s
Nov 25, 2007, 01:33 PM
It hurts a little, but since you're obviously trusting of this man, your future husband, just explain to him that it hurts a little if it starts to, and he should slow down or stop, and be understanding. Remember to use protection unless you're trying for a baby haha.

mjl
Nov 26, 2007, 04:44 PM
Ya, it hurts a bit. My first time my husband only got it in about half way and I had to ask him to take it out because it was hurting too much. We tried again about a week later and finally it didn't hurt as much. And on top of all that I had spotting for about 5 or 6 days after!

Benzo
Nov 26, 2007, 04:50 PM
does it hurt the first timeyou have sex? I'm really scared. I'm not like like 12 either haha
I'm 22 and getting married in a few months. I've waited and i'm scared to death!!! Help!
Don't be scared!! Its going to hurt a little but it is not as bad as people make it seem.

stonewilder
Nov 26, 2007, 06:13 PM
Hurt? It didn't hurt at all my first time.