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rocking_gal
Nov 22, 2007, 09:30 AM
Hello All,
I came to know of this great guy on a networking site. We were acquainted by some common friends. We have been in touch online for the past month and seem to get along very well.We had the opportunity to meet yesterday and it went great. We decided to hang out sometime later in the month.
We exchanged a few messages after th date.Mainly flirting.today I send him a couple of messages and no response at all..
Kindly advice.hes my dream man. Mayb he's too good for me.shld I back off?
Chery
Nov 22, 2007, 01:06 PM
If the first date turned out fine and he seemed as interested as you in getting to know each other more.. maybe your messages were too needy.
What did you convey to him in those messages? He could be busy, on a vacation, with a family or friends. It is getting to the holiday time when we spend most of our time with relatives.
I know it's hard, but try not to message him again until you hear from him - at least then you'll know where you stand one way or the other.
If this is your 'dream guy', I hope it works out for you.
Lots of luck, and happy turkey day!
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rocking_gal
Nov 23, 2007, 02:50 AM
He mailed the same...
Good morning,
Hope you slept well. I awoke at 6am, tossed around and then went for a run at 8am.
Going to be v hard to reach over next couple of days as events are in full swing now.
Will send you travel details as they are formed. Roughly expect to be in your town on the 1st and will stay for a couple of nights. Keep me posted on your travel.
Is he trying to snub me??
JoeCanada76
Nov 23, 2007, 02:55 AM
Does not sound like it if he is emailing you. Dream man after only one date I am doubtful of that. Just do not become over bearing and be patient. You just met the guy.
Joe
rpg219
Nov 23, 2007, 04:34 AM
I agree with Joe... he basically let you know he will be hard to reach for a couple of days. SLOW down. If he is "the right one", take your time and enjoy it.
Keatts16
Nov 23, 2007, 02:36 PM
To good for you? No shuch thing!