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arios
Nov 21, 2007, 11:43 PM
Well, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years and he is the best person I could ever ask for. I am deeply in love with him yet our relationship has been strained due to long distance. I recently moved from my home to go to graduate school, where my boyfriend and I shared a place before he had to report (he's in the army). He and I had the best time together, and recently through my grad program I've met someone else. Nothing has happened between us we're both good friends and have grown closer in the past couple of weeks. We had moments where we def. felt attracted to each other but we never crossed the line. He has a girlfriend that is also a long distance relationship. We hung out on Sat. and he expressed that he felt something for me but didn't know what to do with those feelings. I knew it would be something that would come up but I avoided it as much as possible. Yet ever since he brought it up I'm much more hypersensitve to the issue. I feel completely confused, because while I'm very much in love with my boyfriend I'm developing feelings for someone else but I feel like I can't make anything of those feelings just yet. Im not sure if its because I genuinely like him or because I feel alone that my boyfriend isn't around and this other guy fills in that company. What should I do?:confused:

mongoose102860
Nov 21, 2007, 11:54 PM
Loneliness sucks BUT. Leave well enough alone. Use discipline and wait. Plus it is not fair to BF while he is serving country and GF decides loneyness is unbarable while he has no choice but be lonely. Hang in there sweetheart and be faithfull to him and you heart.