I need serious help. Me and my girl have been going out for about 5 months and I say I love her but there's this other girl that I want. I don't want to break my girls heart but I really want this other girl. I thought about it but I couldn't do it and the boy that the other girl was going out wit cheater on her and hurt her bad. Now that I saw that I don't want to even think about breaking my girls heart. What should I do, I'm really confused.:confused:

You have to decide who you really want to be with. Do you like this girl purley because of physical attraction or do you really care for her more than you do your girl?
Just remember to never leave the one you love for the one you like, it will only end in dissapointment.

Think about it seriously... why do you want the other girl? Is it because she was someone that you couldn't have, but now could possibly pursue?Are you trying to catch her on the rebound? You tell your girl you love her, how do you love her? Is it truly how you feel, or something you use loosely? It's not an easy situation to be in. If you love her, then you LOVE her, and that means being committed. Good luck.

You remind me my ex! He is that kind of man who always looks for other women! If he really can't be with other women,then at least he tries every way to flirt with them! Even now I can't find the reason although I have no interest to know! Even now he changes nothing! If your really love your girl,then make her happy,don't break her heart! It is possible that now you go for that girl,but soon you leave her cause you found you like another girl... think about it carefully and make a decision! Never hurt someone you love, cause that feeling is really unbearable!