I live with my girlfriend who right now, makes more money than me and is the current 'bread winner' of the household. I have a small business that is in the growing stages right now but does bring in money. At first she suggested that I move in with her because I was living in my workspace which really is not fit for living and she "felt bad" for me and proposed that I move in with her, it has been a few months and now she says that I don't know how to treat her, and that she shouldn't have to "train" me to be a gentleman. She tells me that money is no problem but occasionally brings up that she pays more of the bills than I do. I admit that I'm no saint and I usually just walk out of women's lives at the first sign of a disagreement but I care about this woman and she thinks that it's just to take advantage of her, which it's not. I try to be romantic with her but she always manages to bring up one of our bad episodes which kills the mood, then she blames me for being the "anti social" one. I told her that I feel she is holding the 'place to live' over my head and she feels that I owe her even though out of the 6 people that agreed to help her move into "our" place, I was the ONLY one who showed up and basically moved heavy furniture alone!
Does anyone have any advice for this? Should I leave her/move out and go on with my life or what? I have feelings for her but I hate the bad side of her attitude.:confused:

Okay okay okay... see all the above you have posted... read it aloud... and repeat till it is stuck in your head... and say it... TO HER!!

Do you love her? More then likely
Does she love you? More then likely
Are you in a decent relationship? More then likely

Result of a relationship... disagreements, arugements, missunderstandings, and differences in opinions and thoughts! There is a bad side to a good thing you know! You two are together, you will fight, you will argue, but you will make up. What stops a good couple from making up their fights? When they don't talk to each other!! Relationships need trust, understanding, and communication. Don't leave her cause you guys have fights... that is the absolute worst reason to leave anyone cause then you would always be alone! Every couple fights! It's inevitable.

You have feelings for her. Are those feelings strong enough to deal with what you are dealing with? Sounds to me like she may be sorry she had you move in.
If you can afford your own place, get it. Then maybe you two can either start over or be over.

I see where you both are coming from, but another piece of info to this is that I am a college student and she is really gung ho about school, well I failed a class but found out later that through a technicality that I had an opportunity to make it up and I lied to her about it and she found out so now I'm a "Liar, who will most likely cheat on her and not tell her about it." So she says. She is furious that I failed a class and acts as if it's the end of the world. I apologized for lying and told her that it was to keep peace between us until I straightened it out but she has ZERO Forgiveness yet claims to be a "Real Christian."

Another thing is her temper, which REALLY gets out of control and she yells a lot. So far I have been really calm during our "arguments" maybe too calm:cool: , and it drives her even more insane. I would never physically hurt her or anything like that but I'm feeling backed into a corner by a woman that I love and just because it take a lot to upset me, I have a temper that once sparked, it's hard to extinguish and I don't want to do/say something that I'll regret later.

She has "friends" and co-workers (1 or 2 males who she has said in the past has a crush on her) giving negative 'advice' and sabotaging our relationship.:mad:

You need to get your own place. You two are starting of on the wrong foot and it will only get worse. There are too many things that are not conducive to a good relationship. She is acting like the mama and you the child. Time to leave the roost.