This is SO awkward to ask! Okay me and my boyfriend are getting ready to have our 7 month anniversery (december 15). I know this probably doesn't seem much to other people but it means a whole lot to me cause I've never had a boyfriend longer then 6 months cause they all find me annoying or we have a really bad relationship. Me and my boyfriend have only fought twice! He doesn't find me annoying and I almost never make him angry! We are perfect for each other in every way! So I want to do something real special for this anniversery!

I mean I want to go out to eat and all that good stuff but... I want to spice up the sex too, if only for one night, you know mix it up! I mean generally, if I get a feeling we are about to have sex I put on some cute underwear and a cute bra and stuff. Our sex consists of long foreplay and then well... sex!

Now me and my girlfriends just went shopping and I bought some lingerie, some bondage tape, and a small leather nine-tail whip (we are both into bondage and the pain factor... we are kind of kinky >.<). He's always the dominating one though and always doing what he can to get me off, so I want to do something unexpected, sexy, and something that makes me the dominate one! (I've never done this so I'm kind of nervous)Now here's my plan...

I wanted to film myself strip teasing down to my lingerie to music on my computer and compress it to a quicktime(at the end say "Happy anniversery, no turn around") . Then hide the whip, tape, and my lingerie in my car. We go out to eat and stuff and when we get to his apartment, ask him to go for a walk around the block cause I have a surprise. While he's gone I set up my laptop on his desk with the movie up and put arrows leading from his door to his room. Then put on the lingerie, hold the whip, put the tape on his bed, and hide in the room across from his. He comes in and follows the arrows to his room, watches the movie, and when I hear the end stand in his door way with the whip and... night goes on ^.^ no details needed for that!

Now here's the question... Do you think this would work? Is it creepy or cheesy? I've never done anything like this, I've never been the dominate one cause I'm so shy, so I just want to jump him, bind him, and give him the night of his life. I just don't know if I should... what do you all think??

P.S. Is asking these kind of questions so in detail bad O.o I didn't see anything in the rules but I just want to make sure... Thanks everyone!!

Your braver than me! As long as you think he'll enjoy being sub go for it.
Or you could straight out ask him what he wants?

PS like the flag

*blush* not really I'm so nervous about doing it. He is always the dominate one (not to say I don't love it!! ), but sometimes when we are in the foreplay he teases me and tries to get me to be the dominate one. I've tried it before but I always become so shy I can't do it quite right, part of it is also I'm so used to him being the dominate one in sex I'm not to sure what to do. Plus I think of all the stuff a guy can do to a girl and there's A lot more then what a girl can do to a guy. This brings me to another question... say I end up with my boyfriend bond and ready... what do I do! I can tease and tempt him but... I don't know how to mess with him like he does me! There's so much you can do with a vagina but... what can you do with a penis?? Or his chest for that matter? He loves being scratched and his neck and spine are very sensitive... any suggestions ladies??

climb on top of him, have sex, and run my nails along his back? O.o... somehow it doesn't seem as exciting as all he does to me... How can I turn myself into a dominating temprest for him? Instead of the melting sex slave I usually am? If only for one night!

(To let all know right now I'm not LITERALLY his sex slave... we are both into the slave and master sex roleplay)

BTW thanks templelane ^.~ I love it too...

Damn sounds like he's a lucky guy. I remember when my ex had that kind of drive for me, I LOVED IT. Ha:p

*blush* really? So guys like this kind of stuff? I mean in general?

Add on!! Okay someone told me that strip teases are best done dancing (I kind of figured that but oh well). Well I'm not the best of dancers except for a little belly dancing I know... should I belly dance or give it a try at regular dancing?