Hi People,

First of all thanks for taking the time to read my post and any advice would be greatly helpful.

Im having trouble with my confidence. When I was younger at school I got teased about the way I looked (underbite jaw), got cheated on if I had a girlfriend and never felt good enough. When I'm out with one of my friends All the women seem to look at him and never pay me any attention. The other night a friend asked 2 ladies who was the better looking out of me and my mate and they both chose him... I felt terrrible and just wanted to go home. Any person would be happy for their friend but all I felt was jealousy and all I could think of was how I'm not good enough.

I keep thinking what is the point in being with someone if they think someone is better than what they have. My friend is a handsome guy (looks like Mel Gibson and is very well built), I'm skinny, losing my hair(what chance do I have).

When I'm out I constantly need attention, I can't help it, I hate being this way but it seems to be the only hing that can make me happy for that moment in time... I feel females control everything I do in life... for me to be happy I need to be praised, it sooooo wrong but I can't help it.

I need to be liked by everyone and that can never happen. I have been rejected by so many girls and hate myself due to this... Am I insane?? How do I deal better with these situations??

Please give advice Im really struggling enjoying anything in life at the moment

If you got lemons.. make lemonade. So you got an underbite? Try to not care about it. If someone makes fun of it... do something goofy with it that you know will make others laugh. Also when meeting girls... best not to do it with someone who stands out more than you... you're only helping your friend get more attention. I'm not saying he's bad to you or anything... but you'll stand out more if you meet girls with another girl standing with you as a friend.

If you got lemons..make lemonade. So you got an underbite? Try to not care about it. If someone makes fun of it...do something goofy with it that you know will make others laugh. Also when meeting girls...best not to do it with someone who stands out more than you...you're only helping your friend get more attention. I'm not saying he's bad to you or anything...but you'll stand out more if you meet girls with another girl standing with you as a friend.
I got mu underbite corrected last year but I'm still getting the same negative attention... I understand what your saying about my friend but that's like saying I can't go out with him on a night out etc I don't believe that's right it isn't his fault... I am trying to learn how to deal with these situations not run away from them... I just don't understand why females continually criticise the way I look, they have made me hate myself and as this has happened for years I don't have time for most females, I just hate them (sounds horrible but this is how I feel) they have ruined myself esteem... my friend doesn't even have to try when he is out every girl that walks past smiles at him, looks him up and down, pays him compliments, I bascially stand there like an idiot unnoticed most of the time