I was with a guy that is 5 years younger then me. Even though we had an age difference it was not apparent. I look much younger then I am. He is 24 I am 29. We were together a year and two months when he decided that he wasn't happy anymore and stated that he needed sometime to think. He said that I am the best girlfriend he has ever had. His family tells him that I am the best thing that ever happened to him. We were together only 5 months when he quit his job because he didn't get a long with his manager. I helped him out for three months making sure he had food and other things. When he was working I would lend him my car to take to work. For Christmas I surprised him with this ring he had always wanted. It wasn't expensive but, I knew that he wanted it badly. And I am a thoughtful person and I love giving on Christmas. I tried to be a there and support him. I never talked down to him or made him feel bad for not having a job. When I know very well that most girls would have been out of there I stayed and helped him. For his birthday in May we went to a bar and when I went up to get my drink there was a guy sitting at the bar making small talk with me. My boyfriend watched the whole time and when I got back to the table he flipped out an ignored me. Earlier that night I caught him starring hard at a girl in a bikini at the bar and made a sly comment stating that I want to look good in a bikini too. He flipped out on me for that screaming at the top of his lungs at me. We got through that or so I thought. Every time thereafter when we would have an argument no matter what the argument was about he would through that in my face. We did have a fun times and I mostly paid for everything. Everyone would always ask what I am doing with him because I am so beautiful and can get any guy I wanted. Not being conceited just saying what I am told. The fact is that I loved him. For our year anniversary I surprised him with a PS3. Two months later he hits me with the bomb that he is not happy and needs time because he wasn't getting enough space. I also found out that he went through my phone and found text messages that I sent to my sister and friends when I was made at him. True, they weren't very nice but, I was made at the time. I have tried to talk to him to work through this. At first he tells me that he needs time to think. Then he tells me we will take it one day at a time. Then he tells me that he is not sure if he wants to be in a relationship right now. I find it funny that all of this has happened right after he got a car. Every time I text him how I feel he tells me that he doesn't need it and they are not helping the situation. I don't know what to do I feel so lost, I want to work things out. I am so confused. Please help me!

Hello!

Well I know how it feels to be the "dumped" part in a relatiosnhip. Im going through it right now and its not a bit nice.
It seems he is confused, maybe you should give him some time to think about what he really wants. Give him a week with no contact (none at all) and then try contacting him to ask him to have a nice long talk. Tell him you want to understand what he feels and that you want to make things work. I think if he is really sure he doesn't want to be with you its best to know it as soon as you can. Its always best solving those things sooner than later or you can get tangled in a never ending situation. I know it hurts... I'm also in a situation right now!!

Good luck