A few years ago I met a guy who I thought was great. We got on well, laughed a lot and I found him really attractive. We had so much in common and would talk about the fact that we both have commitment problems We saw each other a few times and both spoke about that fact that we quite liked each other. However before we had a chance to decide whether we should get together I stupidly got back with my ex boyfriend and we lost contact. A few months aftre that me and my ex split up again. I saw the guy on a random night out and he said that he was with someone and had moved in with them. He seemed really happy and even though I was gutted we stayed in contact just as friends. I have since then found a new partner who I am quite happy with. Then at the beginning of this year the guy text me asking how I was and if I had settled down yet. He also mentioned that he had split up with his girlfriend. Since then I have thought about him everyday an can't get him out of my head. Its driving me crazy!! He says he still likes me and we have been out a few times. I know there are other girls in his life and can't help but feel that he just wants to have fun and that I have always been a "booty call" He is always saying how lovely I am and that if I didn't have a boyfriend he would see me more. I really don't know what to do!! HELP!! :( :confused:

Stay with your current boyfriend and try and make things work. It sounds as though this other guy is just playing with your feeling, he just wants someone whol be there when he's single, trust me hel probably dump on you again as soon as he finds someone else. You're best off staying away from him, your worth so much more xx

If you think he's all about the booty. Don't give him any.

My question is... he said he had commitment issues when you first started talking. But then he moved in with someone?? That's kind of odd.

Well that's what I thought! He seemed to really like her but when I spoke to him about it he said she was a great girl but he just couldn't love her even though he tried!! He is 27 and always talking about not being settled down yet and he says he really wants to. I have tried loads of times just to forget about him but its really hard when you have thought about someone non stop for so long