beangirl
Nov 15, 2007, 03:13 PM
I am here because this is something I cannot talk to anyone about!
There is a guy I work with who I am so attracted to, but we are both married. I would never cheat on my husband, but feel so drawn to this man. I have never felt such a pull towards someone else before. Is there such a thing as chemistry? Pheromones?
We touch (not sexually) every chance we get, in a very caring way. Just a connection. He looks at me, smiles at me, winks at me, hugs me a lot, or just touches my arm or back when passing by. He told me I am his "favorite" (he's mine too) and is always happy to see me. We can go 1-2 weeks without seeing each other, and he will say "I haven't seen you for 2 weeks!" I mean, I know how long it's been... but he seems to also. We love working together, and nothing inappropriate has happened, even though we have been alone for short times. I don't think it will go further, but does it sound like he's interested? I think it's all in my head. I like him a lot. He is starting to dominate my thoughts. Thanks in advance for your insight!
There is a guy I work with who I am so attracted to, but we are both married. I would never cheat on my husband, but feel so drawn to this man. I have never felt such a pull towards someone else before. Is there such a thing as chemistry? Pheromones?
We touch (not sexually) every chance we get, in a very caring way. Just a connection. He looks at me, smiles at me, winks at me, hugs me a lot, or just touches my arm or back when passing by. He told me I am his "favorite" (he's mine too) and is always happy to see me. We can go 1-2 weeks without seeing each other, and he will say "I haven't seen you for 2 weeks!" I mean, I know how long it's been... but he seems to also. We love working together, and nothing inappropriate has happened, even though we have been alone for short times. I don't think it will go further, but does it sound like he's interested? I think it's all in my head. I like him a lot. He is starting to dominate my thoughts. Thanks in advance for your insight!