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Stacyneedshelp
Nov 13, 2007, 09:30 PM
Okay so there's this guy and I've known him for a while and he had a girlfriend for about 2 years and they broke up about 4 months ago. She's physco. Stalks him, calls him, texts him, every time she possibly can. Me and him are dating now or I guess that's what you can call it. When we're together he truly acts like he's into me, but sometimes it can seem like he's more into my body than my heart. I'm really starting to like him and I feel like I'm becoming to easy and I don't know how to back off. He's really having a hard time with his ex and she's driving him crazy. I recently asked him if we are anything and he said well I just got out of a longg relationship and I don't want to rush into anything and my ex girlfriend is kind of crazy. He's almost letting her determine his future! I totally understand but it's just so hard. He has really bad mood swings too, one minute he's nice and sweet, the next he just acts like we're friends. Everyone thinks we're together, especially his friends. I'm really starting to feel attached and this isn't good! HELP PLEASE!:confused: :( :confused:

Marriedguy
Nov 13, 2007, 10:34 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your situatuion. He should waited until he was ready to move on. Now, he is comfortable with just having sex and unfortunately he took advantage of the fact that you wanted to be with him. Before you started giving yourself to him, he should told you that he is not ready to start another relationship. If he did.. then you are a sex buddy that wants more.

Break-up, you deserve to be with someone that will wants you.. mind, body and soul.

dataguneed
Nov 14, 2007, 10:43 AM
Yea he wants your body and your sex so if you want a relationship tell him that's what you want unless you want what he wants yea he needs to threaten her by saying he going to call the cops he doesn't have to actually call them though