prettygurl
Nov 13, 2007, 05:08 PM
This guy on my bus keeps calling me prude, he says to prove I'm not, he says I could play the nervous game , I have had other relationships where I was close to kissing a guy but did not, I don't like this guy a lot, but I want to prove I'm not prude, plus I'm scared he might plus the truth if I do, I kind of want to do it but I'm not sure,what should I do?
applsvcgirl
Nov 13, 2007, 05:33 PM
Honey, don't fall for the oldest "guy" trick in the book. Once you do this then he will want you to do something else that goes a little farther. He will not stop until he can call you a slut for doing as he wants. It's a game. Tell him it's a stupid game and for him to go find someone else to toy with. He want's to make you uncomfortable and to laugh at you. Once you tell him "well fine, then I am a prude. So?" He isn't worth your time or yourself respect. NEVER do ANYTHING with a boy you do not want to do. If they don't like you because you won't do what they want then they didn't like or respect you in the first place. YOU have to go home and live with your decisions. YOU have to like you. YOU will know when you want to kiss a boy YOU want to kiss. Don't do it before then. You want your first kiss to be memorable for a good reason. Not because some stupid punk is daring you to do it, he's probably a disgusting punk anyway and is just trying to get some attention from the other kids. Attention that won't be good for you I guarantee it.