I really need help. My husband and I have been married for two years and we have been together for five. We have little to no sex life and it is driving me to desperation. We [I]might[I] have sex once every six months, if I am lucky. He has no interest and no explanation as to why or what is wrong. He simply just doesn't want to. I have tried everything. Even he admits it. He will not go to counseling because he does not think that anyone else could possibly help him. I am reaching my breaking point because this has been going on the entire time we have been married. He doesn't have anyone else and neither do I. Not only is he not interested in sex but he does not have any physical contact with me other than a peck on the kiss when forced. What is going on. I have had people say before that it could be stress. He likes his work and we don't have kids. I don't know what to do any more. For the longest time I thought maybe it was just me and all you ever hear about is the woman losing interest. At least here I have seen I am not alone. Please help!

It's normal for one partner to languish sexuallty at some point

His feelings that is, but not how long you all have waited to deal with it.

Relationships spike when we meet. Hormones rage. We do anything for intimacy.
We are doing what we are born to do - follow our instinct to breed. Even if it's just practice!

His wiring has said he has done his job. So what do you do? Look at the core of the relationship:

1) How was the Sex before marrige and early in marriage?
2) what age were you married?
3) were you all experienced a bit with others prior to marriage?
4) do you all respect each other 100%?
5) do you fight? Do you yell? Quarrel?
6) what is your relationships with your families? Parents?
7) do you consider yourself "experimental"?

He needs to chase again and you need to be chased... or whatever your roles were :-)

But to re-ignite please answer questions above and we'll go from there.

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