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Elena90
Nov 8, 2007, 01:10 PM
I'm really confused... I have a boyfriend for 5 months. When we started our relationship, 1 month later he said he loves me, but I didn't believe him because it was too early. Few weeks later he said it again with this words: "First time when i told you I love you, i didn't really meant it, but now I really loves you"... How can I believe him after all these? Please help somehow...

jolienoire
Nov 8, 2007, 01:17 PM
Number one sign he loves you! He shows you!! Does he make you happy? Do you feel love? Does he include you in his future plans? Does he bring you around friends and family? Do he call you often? Text? Email? Those are signs to tell if he truly love you... Most importantly he will show! He will want to be around you. Spend his time with you

Sdjosh
Nov 8, 2007, 01:20 PM
In the way he acts... the way he touches you. He does things not because you expect him too... but because he wants to.

When I was with my ex... I would leave love notes... come home with a white rose... kiss her on the lips and whisper I love you before I left for work. I would make surprise dinners when she came home late. I would find ways just to make her laugh because I wanted to her her laugh.

So many little things. Its different for everyone. Some people are more suttle about it... I for one show it if I feel it. No holds bared. Besides... I was never good at hiding my emotions. You can see it on my face or in my eyes.