How do I allow my hair to come in gray gracefully? I can't handle the ugly root dilemma!!

The ugly root delimma only happens when you dye it. I don't know, I just got tired of dying my hair and everything fell into the place. Now its completely gray. I didn't have the root problem.

How about a wig for the time being, if you cut it short and do the wig approach it might not be as bad. Or how about getting it stripped of the dye color you have now and approaching it from a color that will blend with the grey?