well here's the story... I started talking to this girl about a month ago ever since then we have hit it off pretty good but has this Bf and theve been datin about a month now we talk on the phone every day till like 12:00 at night I know she talks to me way more than her boyfriend cause she's told me she tells me everything including the problems she's having with her boyfriend she tells me how big of a jerk he is and how how he hangs out with other girls that are supposedly his "friends" but she having a hard time trusting him and I give her advice al the time about it the other day I asked her out of the random if she liked me and she said yes but she tells that she really likes her boyfriend even though she tells me how big of a jerk he his I'm really confused when we spend time together its great almost feels like where dating I need some advice here I want to be with her but at the same time I don't want to ruin our friendship because I want to be with her and another thing thing his she always wears my dog tags that I got frm the army around her neck I don't know if that a sighn any advice would be helpful thanks guys
-Punisher
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She likes you. But she has a boyfried. Therefore, she must leave said boy before she and you can be anything other than friends.Dont break them up, but be there for her when they do. It is the biggest way to a girls heart, I know, because I broke up with my boyfriend and fell in love with the guy who was there to soak up my tears : )

She might possibly using you as that "backup guy" so if her boyfriend breaks up with her... she'll have you. Kind of get what I'm saying? But she probably just really likes you but she still likes her boyfriend at the same time. This is a hard situation, but I agree with keatts16: don't break them up, just be there for her.

She likes you because you are like one of her girlfriends. To be honest, I don't think it's ever going to workout between you guys especially since it seems like you have fallen in the "friend zone." You see, girls like drama and her boyfriend provides that. I'm pretty sure that her boyfriend is not a complete jerk to her all the time, and that is why she is still with him. The reason why she's with him and not you is because her boyfriend is not completely nice like you are and will not stick around to hear her complain about ALL her problems. In other words, (not to offend you) he is not a wuss. What you need to do is switch the conversation whenever she decides to complain about her relationship or how much of a jerk her boyfriend is and refocus the discussion on you and her. Show her how fun and exciting YOU are and if she starts to fall for you, great. You talk to her until 12 at night? How much of that conversation is about YOU? If very little is about you, that's as much of a chance as you have with her. When you hang up with her all she's thinking about is her boyfriend because that is all she has been talking about for that last few hours. Not you. You have given her nothing to think about you for except for lending her your ears. How romantic. Lol. I wouldn't care less if I cause them to break up for two reasons. 1) They have only been dating for 1 month, and (2) If she really liked him and they were meant to be then she wouldn't leave him for you. At least you'll know where she stands so that you can move on and have a piece of mind about you not being with her. Be a man and go after what you want instead of standing by the sidelines and watching a game take place that you know you could do better in if she would just make a substitution.