Well after I broke up with my ex I still hung out with a lot of his friends and ended up getting really close to one of them. Well me and him seemed to hit it off right away and made out one night at a party. After that we were both really interested in each other. He wasn't living the same city as me as he was going to college but was done in two weeks or so. I slept with him a few times(slept in the same bed, not as in hooked up) as I didn't want to sleep with him like that because it ruins things. Well as soon as he got back from college I spent a couple nites at his house and he came and picked me up from the bar when I was drunk a couple times but we still didn't do anything. One night I drank a bit and ended up going to his house and did sleep with him that way. Well after that things were just awkward and he didn't phone me or anything anymore. A couple times he would or iw ould and I would stay the night at his house and we would hook up. Well this fall we both ended up going to the same college. And he came over the first night and we cuddled and what not but the next we both drank and I told him I really wanted to be with him and he said no. From there I was heartbroken and seeing him in the bar talking to other girls just made me feel sick to my stomach. Only thing is we have hooked up twice in the last two months and he said that he liked me and thought of us being serious but then he also told me that he likes another girl and has also slept with two others. I am so confused on what is going on between us as I think he does like me but just can't commit to it or what. And I have a lot of feelings for him. So just wondering what your opinion is on his actions and what not. Thanks for anything you can give me!

Nothing is going on between you two other than he is taking what he can get and
Stepping back when you want to take it to another level.
Get over him cause until he can say and prove that you are the one for him he just wants to be a player
With no commitment to any one girl.

Congratulations on your acceptance to College. That took something many people don't have, a good mind. Now would be a good time to bring your physical assets into the same arena your brain's in; you'd be well on your way to fulfilling your dreams.