I have been with my x boyfriend for six years on and off again. We have been broken up for about a month now. He started talking to another girl and I have been talking to another guy. We both agreed they were nobody special. I want to be with him but he wants some time to his self and focus on school. I understand that but he is trying to get the best of both worlds. He knows I am not having that. I want something real and stable. I feel he can't get it to me now and he is not ready. I have not spoken to him for about five days but he keeps calling me and telling me he loves me with all his heart. I am trying to go a month without talking but it is hard. I hope he will something great instead of telling how much he loves me. I want him to show me. I still love and something keeps telling we are meant to be. He is not a bad guy just a stupid male. I want should I take him back if he proves that he is mature and strong?

Probably should shift your focus from his lack of maturity to your 6 year tea party. You need to make a choice for yourself now. Time for you to move ahead.