Hello people,

Me again... Typical I know.

But just a quick question, and my GF will more than likely kill me for asking this but...
At what age should girls start having orgasims? I read that not until a girl is 18+ should she get them regulary during intercorse?

Now my GF is only 16 (Please no one shout at me - Were in-love and age really doesn't matter in this case), and I've only made her orgasm about 5 time in 4 months... I was her first back then, and she went almost every time we done it.

About 2 months ago it started to stop, only when a lot of effort goes into it can I make her go, and sometimes not even then. Only certain ways make her even feel like going (legs in the air). She seems to get stuck a lot as well... Like at the point of going but just gets stuck there... As you can prob amagin she gets very frustrated when I go after holding it in trying to hold out as long as I can to get her over that haulting point...

Any advised on how to get over this Stuck feeling would be grateful... Thanks.

Hello Deano:

Dude! At what age did YOU start having orgasms? I think I had my first one at 3. Why do you think a girl is any different?

excon

Well I don't know what to say on this but yeah a girl can have orgasims at 16
And to be honest I feel there more to the sextual part like holding hand long walks tlking

I am female and I know that it was difficult for me to orgasm with a partner during intercourse when I was younger. I think for me a lot of it was psychological. This wasn't really a problem anymore as I hit my mid-twenties. As I got older, it was easier to relax and just have fun. In the interim, I was lucky that I had partners that could understand that it is not important for partners to have orgasms at the same time for sex to be great. It was so much easier for me to relax if we took turns. For me being relaxed was the key. Good luck!

PS: excon is absolutely correct in my opinion!

Oh brother, yet again... Sorry, but you are never too young or too old to orgasm (that by the way is the correct spelling)

Ok... Thank you all for your advice... Its helped in the case of the age question.

But what about this "Getting Stuck" problem? Is there any reason why she gets to the hightened point of an orgasm but just can't go that little bit more and actually have one?

Well probably for she not that intrested with the sex part sorry to say feel she has to give you abit and probably pretend to love it or even could get tried easy

Dude, first off take about 20 min to cuddle and warm her up. A lot of petting rubbing kissing talking. Get her comfortable in bed with you, she needs to be relaxed. Get her to tell you what she wants while your doing it, if she can't tell you to rub her breast or put you finger in her butt or whatever it is that gets her going it won't be easy to get her off.

dude, first off take about 20 min to cuddle and warm her up. a lot of petting rubbing kissing talking. get her comfortable in bed with you, she needs to be relaxed. get her to tell you what she wants while your doing it, if she can't tell you to rub her breast or put you finger in her butt or whatever it is that gets her going it wont be easy to get her off.

20 minutes, is that all :rolleyes:

This thread is from 2007.

20 minutes, is that all :rolleyes:

This thread is from 2007.Hello shaz,

Yeah, 20 minutes is short... But, don't you think 2 years is a little long?

excon

Hello shaz,

Yeah, 20 minutes is short... But, don't you think 2 years is a little long?

excon

Hmm, yes I have to agree that I would feel a little numb after 2 years.