Hi I'm new, not sure if this is the right category.

My boyfriend has been going on about doing me up the bum for about a year now, he says he wants to try it. And he says he should be the first to do it to me.

I was just wondering does it hurt if you have tried it?

Of course it will hurt at first, it's not made for that!

I've never tried it, but if you do, make sure you use a lot of lubrication.

Yeah but a lot of people say they think it is going to hurt but they really enjoy it

Well maybe you will, but don't do it just because he is pressuring you to.

Well maybe you will, but don't do it just because he is pressuring you to.

I def. have to agree, make sure you want it and make sure its going to make you feel good. My girlfriend and I do it, but it took us a long time before it didn't hurt her anymore. You can't do it all at once, start with a finger or two, then work your way up.