View Full Version : I have a crush on this dude
lashon
Oct 30, 2007, 12:41 AM
:confused: I have a crush on this boy I meet we have kicked a couple times and talked a lot about each other as friendship wise but I like him a lot and he don't know it but I'm scared to tell him cause he already said he didn't want a girl friend cause they crazy and I'm like all girls aren't crazy what should I do?;)
Clough
Oct 30, 2007, 02:35 AM
The first things that I would like to ask you are: How old are you? And, how old is he? It would help to know those things in order to provide the best answers for you.
If he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, it doesn't mean that he won't want one in the future. How about just being friends with him and enjoying life that way and seeing what happens after awhile? I mean that, it is better to establish a relationship as friends first before seeking other things concerning the relationship.
silentrascal
Oct 30, 2007, 04:31 AM
:confused: i have a crush on this boy i meet we have kicked a couple times and talked alot about eachother as friendship wise but i like him alot and he dont know it but im scared to tell him cause he already said he didnt want a girl friend cause they crazy and im like all girls arent crazy what should i do?;)
If you like the guy, then respect his wishes and don't come on too strong with him in trying to get him to notice you or ask you out or anything like that. It is possible his feelings could change in time, but if you try and force your "like" on him and he just doesn't return those feelings, it could hurt whatever friendship you have going. It's possible he may never return those feelings, but don't let that prevent you from being friends. Who knows, you may find someone else who comes along who does want a girlfriend.