I have been dating a girl for the last two plus years. Yes, we have had our ups and downs. Lately I think she hates me. We argue a lot and she has been talking to a few other guys. Telling them they are hott and things like that. She went to a party instead of picking me up from work one night. She deletes every message out of her phone and she never used to do that. I am scared I am going to lose her. I love this girl she is the best, but, lately I do not know if I can hang on. What do I do??

I would suggest talking to her about how you feel, and being honest with her, She should not be flirting or going around with other guys if she is with you. Ask her why she is doing these things, maybe she feels neglected and wishes you would give her more attention. Ask her why she cannot be open with you about things. Don't be hostile, just ask her to be honest with you. Tell her you care and you love her and perhaps she will come around. Good luck!

Sounds like she hates herself and you need to cut her loose... if you love something, let it go... if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't it never was

Well sucks too be you cause your girl is cheating on you just suck it up butter cup go get a new girlfriend she probably just isent sexually satisfied so looks bad bro give up

Talk to her about it! Talking is the only way to possibly get this right. But if she's behaving to other boys like that you are allowed to want an answer. Why would she hate you?