Me and my boyfriend brock up 4 2 yrs then got back together agen 4 5 mounths I thought we were OK then last week he told me he loved me very much but he wasn't in love with me.how can I get him back.I feel so lonely without him ::( :( .I feel my life has come to a end please help.we have bin together nearlly 12 years alltogerther.

The BEST way to get someone back is to let them go... It sounds crazy, but just go NO CONTACT, and move on. Sorry.