andrea_louise
Oct 23, 2007, 05:37 PM
Help really need advice.
I was having a casual fling with a lad for quite a while and I really liked him hoping it would develop into something else. I had confided in my best friend all the things me and him got up to, and I feel she got in between me and him by getting very close to him. A couple of months ago she told me that him and her were now dating and there was nothing I could do I about it.
I was really upset and I said to her why are you doing this to me because I felt I confided in her and told her personal private things. I have stopped speaking to her because she has hurt me and I also have cut all ties with him.
Since I work in the neighbourhood I see him often walking passed looking in at me, I feel really hurt and betrayed but I am finding it hard to accept what has happened.
Recently I found out that they are planning to move in together after Christmas, I am not happy about this. But I know I can't do anything.
She is 10 years older than him (he is 23)
Just really confused I don't know what to do, feel as though I should move (cos it will hurt me if it got more serious after that) Moving away means I will never see them again and I will never know how it worked out, think it would help me in the long run.
Can someone please give me advice
I was having a casual fling with a lad for quite a while and I really liked him hoping it would develop into something else. I had confided in my best friend all the things me and him got up to, and I feel she got in between me and him by getting very close to him. A couple of months ago she told me that him and her were now dating and there was nothing I could do I about it.
I was really upset and I said to her why are you doing this to me because I felt I confided in her and told her personal private things. I have stopped speaking to her because she has hurt me and I also have cut all ties with him.
Since I work in the neighbourhood I see him often walking passed looking in at me, I feel really hurt and betrayed but I am finding it hard to accept what has happened.
Recently I found out that they are planning to move in together after Christmas, I am not happy about this. But I know I can't do anything.
She is 10 years older than him (he is 23)
Just really confused I don't know what to do, feel as though I should move (cos it will hurt me if it got more serious after that) Moving away means I will never see them again and I will never know how it worked out, think it would help me in the long run.
Can someone please give me advice