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crushedovernover
Oct 15, 2007, 10:27 AM
OK so here is what is going down. Since the break up my ex has filed for custody. She lied up and down all over the pappers and I can prove she did. That is neither here nor there. BUT on the pappers she claimed our relationship was short.. 3 years short ? Anyway soon I will be sending my pappers back but with nude photos of her on a certain date. . But on this date she claimed we weren't together and she wanted nothing to do with me but these pictures are proof that she did want something to do with me.l Also it goes gainst her judgment. Anyway my mom keeps telling me to be on the look out because she says that my ex will try to come back, seduce me, do what ever it takes to get ahold of these pictures and all other evidence I have against her. But this is where the NC is going to work for me. Hahah you see if she does try to call "which i know she will.. who wants naked pictures SPREAD eagle of yourself going into a court room lol" I will usethe NC to my benefit.. She is either going to do one of 2 things AT first. Mabe call angry or crying tyring to be nice.. I have a angle for both. If she calls me angry I'm going to simply say " I have nothing to say to you speak to my lawyer" or if she calls all nice I was going to be Mr.Nice guy but a girl I was speaking too said odnt even be nice say the same thing for both.. I have nothing to say to you contact my lawyer. This girl said to say this for both because that is really not what I usually do. She claims it will make my ex crazy because it will show I just don't care anymore. She claims to blow her off and that is exatcly whati plan to do. Some might say I'm playing games but I'm just protecting my son and my rights to see him. My mom says she will try to use sex to get to me.. Not going to happen. I will find it amusing if my ex tries this tactic because she will be shot down.. Anywhich way if she tries to call I will be ignoring her and no replying to her. This is really out of character and it will crush her ego if I deny to have sex with her. She will be dumb founded. Ill let you know what happens as the pappers will be sent to her this week. Do you all think she is going to try to contact me because eveyrone who I speak too says uhh she is going to try to kill you lol. They said she will be angry,sad,mad,guilt, they saidshe will try every thing in the book to get what she wants. So how can I prepare to be strong for this up coming storm.. I believe I have the strengh to say I have nothing to say to you BUT I DO... I want to say what is on my mind and also want to address what she did but it will get me no where. So is saying to her.. I have nothing to say to you.. You think that will drive her crazy lol. Really I'm not trying to get her back right now. She will have to come back on her own if ever but that will be then but for now I think I'm going to find it amusing on how much she doesn't want the court to see those pictures and how she is going to try.. Umm yes I can't taste the power hahah. I might be being a bit silly but from what this girl has put me threw I think it is fair game. She had no concer for me or my feelings so why should I bee concered with hers. What do you think??

crushedovernover
Oct 16, 2007, 11:08 AM
Any insight ?

s_cianci
Oct 16, 2007, 03:09 PM
Just stick with your first impulse and give her the "speak to my attorney" line ; nothing more, nothing less ; like a broken record if necessary. Incidentally, what does your attorney think of including the nude photos as part of your evidence? I ask this because that might not really be relevant and it could end up backfiring on you. Continue to take your mother's advice ; she knows all the tricks this ex might try to pull with you.