traveler79
Oct 9, 2007, 01:19 PM
I know it may sound played out and dumb. But, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year recently. We had been fighting and we both said some mean things. I have forgiven him but he still holds what I said to him as an absolute truth and won't forgive me. How do I show him I still care and the things that were said don't mean anything?
Also, there has been tons of outside stressors on the relationship which is why we started fighting in the first place. He just bought a new building, he is starting a new business, his father is dying of cancer and we are both in financial hardships right now. We also hadn't had sex in months. He is determinded to blame all his stress and anger on me. He won't let me fix any of my mistakes. How do I help him see it is the situation we are in and not us that is the problem? How do I help him see that we are good together? Is there anything I can do other than giving him space? How do I make him desire me again without seeming pushy or putting any pressure on him?:confused:
Also, there has been tons of outside stressors on the relationship which is why we started fighting in the first place. He just bought a new building, he is starting a new business, his father is dying of cancer and we are both in financial hardships right now. We also hadn't had sex in months. He is determinded to blame all his stress and anger on me. He won't let me fix any of my mistakes. How do I help him see it is the situation we are in and not us that is the problem? How do I help him see that we are good together? Is there anything I can do other than giving him space? How do I make him desire me again without seeming pushy or putting any pressure on him?:confused: