Another guy and my girlfriend are going to the dinner and then go bolling I really don't know what to do.

Bolling? Is that like bowling? Do you think they'll bowl perfect games?

Dinner and bowling is just dinner and bowling. Are they going to her place for dessert? Is that what you are worried about? Did you tell her you are kind of worried about this? If so, what did she say? Have you and her been dating a long time, or just started? Are you two serious or just on the first level?

Whichever level, communication is the key. If you two do not communicate now, forget about level two or beyond.

I can see her and this guy having dinner and bowling as something completely innocent. Who is this guy to her? Childhood friend? Classmate?

I would say to trust your girlfriend, unless she proves herself untrustworthy. Then you have an issue.

We been dating for 1 year and 5 months. She said this was her friend from High school but, personally I don't buy it. She told me she and this were going to the movies and then she called me back and told me the were going to dinner and afterwards go bowling.

This doesn't sound positive (for you).

When you say it doesn't sound positive for me what do you mean.

You've been dating for a year and a half. First she says she and a guy she knew in h.s. are going to the movies. Then it changed to bowling and dinner. Dinner at a fancy restaurant or at Wendy's? It'll be an early night? Will he kiss her goodnight? Does it matter?

I guess it's in her favor that she told you ahead of time.

Wondergirl is right, it is in her favor that she told you ahead of time. Why didn't she invite you to come with and meet her friend?

Tell her that she is really huting you and ask her what's up with this guy and her going out . Just try to remember that people don't always stay with you. Ask the guy what's up too he should not be hanging with your girl but don't pick a fight I know that if you want a new girl they fall for someone who says what he's got to say but does not make it into a big old thing. :)

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lily_678

I see nothing wrong with a girl having a guy friend or a guy having a girl friend who they hang out with, but she shouldn't be hanging out like that with out you. If they are just friends then why wouldn't you be going too? When it's friends hanging out 3 is never a crowed, in fact the more the merrier. Knowing how woman are I'm sure she would be feeling just as you do if the tables were turned. I take that back... she would never allow it, nor should you. She is either looking for a new boyfriend to replace you or she is trying to make you jealous. Either way it sounds like she is playing you for a fool. I would keep my cool and have a long talk with her. In the end there would be rules regarding friends of the opposite sex or the relationship would have to end.