I'm in love with a 57 years old man and I'm 39 years. We've been together for a year and cohabiting. He never liked to go out parting or social events and we both set at home. For three months he's been seeing another woman sending each other sms's but he denies his affairs. He left town one weekend (saturday)and lied that he was going to a funeral he did not answer his phone when I called him. On Sunday I went away for hours and he tried to call me I did not answer his phone and When I got home I did not ask him anything but he was fussy and telling how hurt he was for not responding to his calls. I told him I did not hear it ring and I tried him more than 10 times. He said I don't trust him, we should not live together if he's going to be restrated from going out, the coming week you'll be going to meet your friends and that makes him feel bad since he daoes not know them then he said no one goes anywhere and I asked him is it because It will be my turn to go and he said no. The next day he calls me from work and tells me how much he loves me and that he sees a bright future with me. He told the other woman not to call/sms him anymore and she was complaining on the sms but he does not know that I do read his sms's. No more call or sms from the woman. I then asked him to with me to meet my friends next weekend and he says he can't he does not know them. I spoke about buying a new outfit for the occasion and he's unhappy about it. Should I push him to go or go alone, not go, what is he up to? He has been lying to this woman and it was their 1st time to sleep together when he said she must not call or sms him anymore.

Go alone. Leave him to his own self pity for being alone. Seriously consider the merit of this relationship, as it sounds like this is a lose-lose relationship.