I have a friend whom husband is lying to her frequently - in fact today he came home for 10 minutes told her they didn't get a lunch break and he was just home to grab his uniform for inspection - when in fact he was with my husband (whom came home on lunch) before hand, and there is no uniform inspection today.

Not that this in itself says anything about cheating, but what are the signs, so I can tell her what to look out for.

HELP PLEASE

I wouldn't know because I never had a reason or desire to violate my vows.

I suspect the large blocks of unaccounted time, anger when asked where he was. Although I must also state that the one thing that my wife gets seriously upset about is being lied to. During the early years of our marriage I would lie when there was absolutely no reason to, sometimes it was more quick to lie than tell the truth. Sometimes the lie popped out again for no particular reason.

It was really tough to get out of the habit. But when lying created more problem at home then telling the truth, I stopped lying