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Still A live
Oct 1, 2007, 11:25 AM
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnet for the last 7 monthes He has 2 kids from his last marriage so it has to be me I am getting fustrated and hurt I get upset when I start my period I am only 19 and I want a baby! I love his kids but he seems just fine with those two I want to have my own babies.
Dose any one know of a good dr in Arizona I am looking and having a hard time with it!
Please help me!
Still A live

automansgirl
Oct 1, 2007, 02:06 PM
First of all, it sounds like you are stressing about this way too much! Secondly, it takes most healthy couples a year or more to become pregnant. Now with that said... you need to find an ob/gyn. Ask the women in your area (neighbors, friends, colleagues) about their doc. Set an appointment and discuss getting pregnant with him/her. Most doctors won't do any fertility testing until you have been trying for 12 months or more, especially at your age. Now try to relax. Don't put so much pressure on getting pregnant. You obviously want have intercourse around when you ovulate, and no more than every other day. Don't make it so clinical and just have fun for a while. The more stress you put on yourself the more difficult it will be to conceive.

Alicia85
Oct 1, 2007, 07:15 PM
My husband and I started trying when I was just 15 years old. After 2.5 years of multiple miscarriages, followed by 3.5 years of infertility, infertility testing and then finally infertility drugs, our baby is due next month.
I want to tell you that both him and I went through test after test, every test came back in normal range or better then normal. We never did find a problem. Yet we couldn't get pregnant. I was seeing an ob/gyn since 2004, my last appointment was this year, 2007. I took Clomid to get pregnant. Im 22 years old, so I can definitely relate in more ways then one. Its hard, but like the PP said, ob/gyns won't start testing you until you've been trying for at least 12 months.
As for getting in to see an ob/gyn, I don't know about there, but here, I had to get a referral to one, and thankfully I got one of the best in the city.
Good luck!