Just for the record, Im not an emo : D.

So.. Im in desperate need of adv1ce. Ive been seeing this wonderfulgirl for a while now, Name nat. About 1 year. Story starts about 2 months back. Believe it.. I got lazy in the relationship, and I took her for granted. She wanted me to leave in a week and I obliged if that was what she wanted. 6th day of the week she was in my arms crying don't leave. I had obviiously asured her I had changed. And I had I was amazing times of my life. Now 2 months in future. Basically... I got lazy again (I can't believe it) and now she likes this guy she's known and talked to for 4 years now, I always said something fishy was going on but she assured me there wasn't. She told me she doesn't know what she wants (tonite) me or this tony . But she says I have a small chance. Ive changed before. I did it easy. But this is my second last chance. I want her back so bad.

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How does it make you feel being compared to someone else like that? I stuck around in the same situation and I regret it every day.

I got lazy too - but I did it subconciously. I have told him everything I can to let him know that things will change - he says he's frustrated and needs to think... NC I hate it, but I know it's the ONLY thing that will work.

I do suggest telling her all you feel then let her initiate the rest.

I currently work about 25 hours a week in the same kitchen as her. I also got lazy _subconciously_ I always expressed my feelings in full, I always told her to talk to me if anything is a miss, now she's flirting with this other guy. Im really getting worried