My best friend has this really really REALLY annoying brother, if him and my friend comes to my house he will act like he can touch or wreck any of my stuff and eats all my treats,
In one incidient I usually barley ever get gum and I had some and he was over and he asked like 8 times and all the times I told him politley no but he keeps annoying me, also sometimes there are things that me and my friend can only do because we are older and he'll freak out, he is only 6 and I try to be nice but he gets so annoying but his mom will go on his side, how can I help be nicer but still say no sometimes?

My best friend has this really really REALLY annoying brother, if him and my friend comes to my house he will act like he can touch or wreck any of my stuff and eats all my treats,
in one incidient i usually barley ever get gum and i had some and he was over and he asked like 8 times and all the times i told him politley no but he keeps annoying me, also sometimes there are things that me and my friend can only do because we are older and he'll freak out, he is only 6 and i try to be nice but he gets so annoying but his mom will go on his side, how can i help be nicer but still say no sometimes?
Hey, Not sure of your age. I am new to this. So I would advise your friend not to take her brother round. Say it makes you unconfortable. And that he can be annoying. After all your friends with her not her brother. Don't make it sound mean just say that you would rather see her on her own.. Hope this helps xxx

He's 6. That's what six year olds do. Everything is the end of the world and they keep pushing buttons until they get their way. There are a few things you can try. One thing is involve him, color, play a game spend some time. When you have to do something with your friend, don't tell him what you are doing, just do it. Also try and give him some things to do when you are doing "older" things. As far as the gum, I would just say that he needs his mom's permission and he should ask her for some gum. Good luck, but remember he is only six so have patience.